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SOMETIMES,
it's someone
you know
~ Violence
among people who know each other can be physical, sexual, and/or emotional
in nature. It can occur between people who have just met, people who have
been together for awhile, and between people who are married. People of
all ages, educational levels, and social backgrounds are victimized. Behaviors
range from minor controlling acts to rape to physical assault.
Call
911 if you are in immediate danger!!
They can connect you with us. Or you can call the Abuse & Assault
Hotline
342-1600.
If
you are a survivor of rape or past sexual abuse - it's never too late
to talk to someone who can help.
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Stalking
What
is Stalking?
Stalking
can include any repeated behavior by someone that seems harassing
or threatening to the person being victimized. It does not need to
involve specific weapons, occur at particular places, or consist of
particular actions but it does involve a repeated pattern of behavior.
Consult
with your local human services agency, talk to them if you have questions.
They will be able to give you basic information on stalking and refer
you to other agencies.
IMPORTANT
Phone Numbers
Abuse
and Assault Hotline - 342-1600
Oswego Hospital - 349-5511
A. L. Lee Memorial Hospital 598-2222
Law Enforcement Emergency Number - 911
Non-Emergency
Numbers
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Oswego
City Police Department - 342-8120
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Fulton
City Police Department - 598-4504
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Oswego
Co. Sheriff's
Department - 349-3411 or 1-888-349-3411
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SUNY
Oswego Dept. of Public Safety - 341-5555
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NYS
Police: Fulton - 593-6194
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NYS
Police: Hastings - 668-2496
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NYS
Police: Pulaski - 298-5162
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Central
Square Village Police - 668-6676
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Phoenix
Village Police - 695-2001
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Pulaski
Village Police - 298-7525
For
additional information, call Family Court at 349-3350, Monday through
Friday, 8:30 am -
4:00 pm.
To
discuss your options or to review the behaviors that concern you, call
the Abuse and Assault Hotline at 342-1600. Calls are accepted 24 hours
a day, 7 days a week.
New
York State's Response
In 1999,
New York State passed the "Clinic Access and Anti-Stalking Act."
The Legislative intent declares that criminal stalking behavior has
become more prevalent in recent years. Stalkers who repeatedly follow,
phone, confront, and/or threaten...inflict immeasurable emotional
and physical damage to their victims. This law provides for increased
penalties for repeat offenders, for those offenders who stalk children,
for those offenders who possess weapons when stalking and for those
who commit stalking in violation of an Order of Protection.
Under
New York State's law the stalker may have to directly and clearly
be told to stop the behavior. In other instances the stalker's behavior
is clearly a crime. Local law enforcement and several agencies may
be involved, depending on where the stalking behavior takes place,
and can assist victims to notify stalkers that the behavior must stop.
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30%
of all murdered women are killed by their husbands or boyfriends who
stalked them. (FBI Study)
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One
in 12 women and 1 in 45 men have been stalked at some time in their
life. (Tjaden and Thoennes, 1998)
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80%
of stalking victims stalked by their current or former intimate partner
had been physically assaulted by this person and 31% had been sexually
assaulted by this person. (National Institute of Justice Study)
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N.Y.S.
was the 50th State to enact an anti-stalking law.
TIPS
TO DOCUMENT STALKING
Notify
the stalker in writing or with a witness
present, to stop the behavior. And:
- Tape
all messages
- Use
a cellular phone
- Keep
all letters, cards, or notes from the stalker
- Keep
all objects sent by stalker or appearing at victim's home, workplace
or school
- Keep
all photographs sent by stalker
- Keep
all drawings sent by stalker, including any notes
- Print
or forward e-mail communication or save to the hard drive
- Keep
a log or diary that describe stalking activities
- Tell
landlord, employer, and/or school security about the behavior
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THINGS YOU CAN DO TO
PROTECT YOURSELF:
- Ask
to be escorted to parking places
- Change
work or school schedule
- Drive
home or to other places using alternative routes
- Move
to a new place
- Live
with others
- Get
a new phone number
- Install
an alarm system
- Buy
a guard dog
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Obtain
and Order of Protection
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Harassing,
annoying or threatening calls
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Vandalism
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Leaving
gifts or treats
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Sending
cards or letters
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Contacting
by e-mail or fax
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Violating
Orders of Protection
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Disabling
the victim's car
- Killing
or hurting the victim's pet
- Following
the victim - on foot or by car
- Getting
information about the victim through others
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Taking
mail from the victim's mailbox
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Appearing
at or near the victim's home, school, or workplace
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Entering
the victim's home without permission
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Taking
things or moving items
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Taking
pictures or videos of the victim, alone or with
others
- Listening
to or taping the victim's calls
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Reporting
the victim to Child Protective Services
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Ordering
items for delivery to the victim's home
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Using
the Post Office and/or Department of Motor
Vehicles
to find the victim
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Threatening
to harm the victim, this can be a direct threat, a veiled threat
or a conditional threat (i.e.. "If you go to the police,
I will kill you.")
If
you have any non-crisis questions or need additional information about
DVCOC, this pamphlet, or domestic violence issues calls SAF, a division
of Oswego County Opportunities, Inc., at 342-1544.
DON'T
HESITATE
TO CALL
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ABUSE
& ASSAULT HOTLINE
342-1600 (24 hours/7 days)
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